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Music Lover

Female (62) looking for Male Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States

My friends would say that I strive to be kind and thoughtful...also ambitious... and mischievous. I love really good humor! I desire to be mindful and spontaneous - enjoy and have fun. My motto: Life is an adventure, so I am going to LIVE it as fully as I can! The bad and the good are all a part of the picture of life. The circle.

I am looking for a friend first, and if more develops, wonderful. If not, we had an honest connection of communication. Looking for a classy guy who understands both the simple and finer things of life. Really enjoy camping and a good play - both extremes. I am not looking for a hookup...I am true blue, looking for the real deal. Intellectual stimulation; it helps with any relationship. So, if you are the type who wants to rush into a relationship ....probably not your girl. If you like to get to know someone.....and enjoy the process... see if we can be friends, then see what develops....send me a message.

I believe that kindness is the true measure of anyone's strength. Laughter is the spice of life. I like that spice. I crave time in the outdoors...and would like to meet a guy who enjoys taking pictures of wildlife rather than shooting them for sport. I happen to be one of those people who think dogs are simply the essence of unconditional love. I keep learning and trying new feeds my passion for knowing the why of things.

Being divorced 9 years now, I feel I have "discarded" the baggage and would enjoy meeting that relationship of deep connection...if it is meant to be. Integrity, honor, takes care of himself, enjoys simple pleasures, kindness, and ability to laugh a must. Hope he enjoys having fun in the moment. Road trips with classic rock - a true gem of life! Love spontaneity!! I am not religious in an organized religion way, but my daily spiritual practice is very important to me. An independent as far as politics, but much more liberal than conservative -

Music is a huge love and passion in my life...all kinds. Can't live without music. I'm looking for a rare type of guy...but, I know they exist. Good luck on your search as well. PS - I posted pictures...less than one year old.. ..If you want a response, please reciprocate.

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My Dancing Preferences

Do you attend competitions?Yes
Have you ever won a prize in a competition?No
How often do you dance?From time to time
Does your potential date have to be a dancer, too?No


EthnicityNative American
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusPart-time
Job Titleeducator/marketer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Thriller
Favorite moviesBird Box, Tombstone, Last of the Mohicans .....I just love going to the movies....or at home
Music typesRock, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Dance, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsRobert Plant, Robbie Romero, Kevin Welch, Robbie is easier to say I LOVE music. I can't live without music.
Reading selectionBiography, History, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, Religious, Science
Favorite booksI am a bookacholic...I love reading nonfiction.
Idea of funIt is an adventure!!
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trymost everything...working on my list of things that I want to do or see ...


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Goal in lifebecome a better person and have fun along the way

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnersomeone who knows how to go out for a nice dinner or primitive camping....I love both ends of the spectrum. Also, someone who is kind and not driven by pure ego. And, enjoys music!
On the first dateSomeplace that we can visit and get to know each other.